Write the picture before the symbol
A fraction symbol is easier to write when a child can first describe a picture. Suppose a bar is divided into five equal parts and three parts are shaded. Say the meaning aloud: “There are five equal parts altogether, and three are shaded.” Then write 3/5. The visual explanation tells a child exactly where each number comes from.
Do not begin by asking which number goes on top. Begin by finding the whole and the equal parts. The total number of equal parts is the denominator, so it goes on the bottom. The parts being counted are the numerator, so they go on top. This order is more reliable than memorizing positions without a model.